{"id":123,"date":"2022-07-29T04:13:03","date_gmt":"2022-07-29T08:13:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bhakticreative.com\/drcm\/?p=123"},"modified":"2023-10-06T10:05:36","modified_gmt":"2023-10-06T14:05:36","slug":"stop-shoulding-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bhakticreative.com\/drcm\/stop-shoulding-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Shoulding Yourself! DENT Talk ADA &#8217;22"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Shoulding yourself is the process of making decisions based on what you feel you are \u201csupposed\u201d to do<\/h4>\n<p>It is the process of making decisions based off what others think you should do. Many of us do it daily, simply when chose what to wear, eat or watch\/read.<\/p>\n<p>Then there are the bigger decisions, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Career<\/li>\n<li>Partner<\/li>\n<li>Health<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I challenge you to reflect on the areas of your life you\u2019d like to see transformation. 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